“Being Healthy is a Revolutionary Act”

“ Being Healthy is a Revolutionary Act” is a fancy way of saying that if you’re interested or attempting to become a healthier version of yourself, that it won’t be easy.

My inclination is to quit, when I think…whatever…is too much. My inclination is to respond to situations pretty much the same way every time. My inclination is to make excuses.

But when it comes to revolution, truth needs to be spoken (out loud) and changes have to be made. Sometimes you have to say “ I was wrong.” Sometimes you have to leave negative people or situations behind. Sometimes you have to admit you are the negative person that created the ‘situation’. Sometimes you have to start giving more than you take. Sometimes you have to say ‘no’. Sometimes you have to grow a thicker skin.

Say, ” I spend too much time in my feelings,” and then get out of them, even when you have literally become a part of your bed and/or couch. When Netflix asks you , ” Are you still there?”, turn it off.

Say, ” My health is out of control,” and then go for a short walk, take a few steps into the direction of a healthier life .

Say, ” I keep putting (fill in the blank) off, because I’m afraid (fill in the blank)”, then stop putting what you want to get done or need to get done off.

I figure I have one life to live and I can’t waste that time under the covers; just stuck. So I’m taking responsibility for my mental, spiritual, physical, and emotional health. Whatever that looks like for you, I encourage you to the same.

It will be difficult, it will hurt, it will be uncomfortable, it will take more time than what you prefer. It will be challenging, you will want to quit but it will be worth it. Keep going.Graff-Netflix-crop

You will never speak to anyone more than you speak to yourself in your head. Be kind to yourself.

Immediately after writing my first post I began to tell myself , ” That’s stupid. That’s lame. That’s too plain. It’s too short. Too vague. Too random. Too ’emo’. Weak.” Immediately I ‘went there’. I’m not sure if I’ll ever stop doing that. I cannot say when the negative self-talk started, but I can push back . Fight darkness with light and talk myself back into something I’ve started that could potentially be good for me and someone else. So let’s practice…

Say This…
“I love every cell of my body.”
Not That…
“I’m fat.”

Say This…
“May the next few months be a period of magnificent transformation.”
Not That…
“I’ll never lose this weight.”

Say This…
“ I can.”
Not That…
“ I can’t.”

Say This…
“ I lose weight systematically and I keep it off permanently.”
Not That…
“ I can’t get rid of this stomach.”

Me: Post an honest picture of yourself in your true element, maybe it will inspire someone       Also Me: Your bedroom is a mess and your workout close don’t match, you tacky heffa




“Every Day Is New Day and a New Opportunity to Take Care of Yourself”

I am the queen of quitting. I am a pro at starting over and beginning again and this is not limited to caring for myself. This is actually the 3rd blog I’ve attempted to consistently contribute to in my lifetime. I’ve started and stopped hobbies, careers, degrees, relationships, and more with astonishing alacrity. I love to learn, I love new experiences and I love to stretch my mind. However, when it comes to taking care of myself , I’ve come to realize that quitting has dire options and I have a limited amount of chances to ‘begin again’ without consequence.

Remember when you were 20 years old and you could eat like a box of 12 Krispy Kreme doughnuts and not gain weight? Remember when you were 14 years old and could climb that rope in gymnastics without huffing or puffing? Remember being 9 years old and playing literally all day? Well FORGET THAT SHIT, that ain’t what this blog is about.

I’m not sure exactly what this blog will be about , but it won’t be a place where we ‘shoulda-coulda-woulda’ all day. We all know what we need to do. It’s not a mystery. The task at hand is to continue to stay motivated and provide support, encouragement for one another to be the best versions of ourselves : physically, spiritually, emotionally, relationally.

Hold me up and I’ll hold you up. I’ll give you what I got, you give me what you got. I’ll cheer you forward, you cheer me forward. Today is a new day, going forward we are seeking and cultivating inspiration to taking care of ourselves. Ready?

I played softball for maybe 2-3 years, before moving on to basketball,then track, then no team sports whatsoever by high school